by Guest Blogger, Lisa Solar
Have you ever breezed past an acquaintance or colleague, offered a snap smile and a quick “Hi, How are you?” without listening for the answer? Probably. Most of us have. It’s common habit in American and many other cultures to offer this rote greeting and inquiry, and then move on. It’s the friendly thing to do, right?
But what if we could pause for a moment right then, and make a concerted effort to look at someone and truly acknowledge them, even for just a few seconds? Could it make a tiny difference in that person’s day? Could altering our greeting rituals just a little, and learning to move through the world with a little more intention, a little more connection, begin a chain reaction of kindness and caring that might effect an even more profound change? I think so. (more…)